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Do you dream of building a happy family? Are you thinking of being a “perfect” mother?

 

Each one of us as a mum who enters motherhood has a list of beliefs, desires, and expectations on how to be a perfect mum in order to build a happy family. 

 

We all hope to have a happy family where every one is supportive and understanding, and our children trust us easily with their fears, secrets, and thoughts.

 

We form these beliefs from the pressures we face entirely in our communities and societies; as well as our own experiences with our parents; and through the expectations of friends, extended families; and the media. 

 

All these views can have so much power and influence in our lives and it is difficult to listen and think through what it means to have a happy family. This causes more anxiety, depression, and overwhelming in today’s world.

 

The truth is, every one’s definition of a ‘happy family’ is different. What may be happy for you, may not be happy for another. 

 

When we are happy and contented with what we have, we don’t see a need to grow or improve any further.

 

Embracing our imperfections is part of the growing process like a child learning to walk with his/her tiny feet.

 

We learn to gain knowledge from other mothers and through her own experience as time passes by which includes failing and making mistakes. 

 

1. Spend quality family time with your children

To build a happy family, quality family time should be spend with children

Many working mothers want to spend quality family time with their families. However, they struggle between their career, parenthood, and time for self-care.

 

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Children need parents’ support as it builds close relationships, and they may feel a sense of comfort.

 

As you get busier each day, it’s even harder to sit still and spend quality family time with your child regularly. 

 

Spending quality family time doesn’t have to be going overseas or going on a trip to Sentosa in Singapore. Chatting casually is another way to bond with your child. 

 

You can ask open questions such as “What did you like best about your day today?” or “Who did you sit with during recess?” 

 

Be curious and you may be surprised by their answers with the answers they give to you may delight you.

 

2. In order to build a happy family, show your feelings, but don’t overwhelm your child

To be a happy family, children should show care for their mother

Modeling your own emotion provides a positive example for your child. 

 

For example, having a bad day can affect your emotions or behavior. 

 

Acknowledge your feelings and express them to your child saying, “I just wanted you to know that Mum is sad about what had happened today so I may be a little quieter.” 

 

This form of dialogue and interaction not only shows effective mood management but also allows children to understand that your behavior and emotions are not the results of what they did. 

 

Most children like to fill in the gap to understand what is happening, and they do it by assuming it was their fault.

 

If you are struggling with a work-life balance, check out 5 tips that we came up with to help you balance your career, parenthood, and self-care simultaneously HERE.

 

3. Allow your child to be who they want to be, in order to build a happy family

To build a happy family, children can be anything they want to be

A child’s personality and mood are important characteristics. Naturally, as mothers, we want to shape, influence, and expose our children to many opportunities. 

 

Finding the right balance between encouragement and guidance, exposure, and independence is part of our responsibility as parents.

 

Allow your child to be who they are with your guidance, love, and support

 

Worry, fear, anger, dissatisfaction, sadness, embarrassment, joy, thankfulness, happiness, and contentment are all common experiences and sensations associated with motherhood.

 

If we are so caught up in perfectionism, we miss out on learning how challenging emotions can stretch and drive us— these are the feelings that teach us the most about ourselves.

 

The more mothers are willing to discuss how they’re feeling, what they need, and what is happening below the picture-perfect surface, the closer they’ll go to increasing their overall well-being and happiness in obtaining the picture of a happy family they always dream of having.

 

Being a healthy mother is the basis of a mother in building a happy family. Keep in mind that your child needs you—a healthy version of you, not the perfect version of you.

 

With one of these fabulous tips, I’m more certain than ever that each of you can embrace your flaws, set aside your ego, and build your happy family.

 

Have you embraced “being good enough”? If so, tell us how you did it and anything else you want to share in the comments below.

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